By Grace Chatting
Hopefully you now have a solid understanding of the way your thoughts, beliefs and emotions operate with the Law of Attraction to attract certain kinds of people and events into your life, and how relationships with others mirror your relationship with yourself. You also know the importance of being whole and happy on your own, as well as the importance of being the person your perfect partner would want to be with. Finally, you’ve now got some clear ideas of things you can do to help bring him or her into your life.
Would your new partner be central or peripheral?
But, what will you do when he or she gets here? Is there room for this new person in your life? I see people whose work takes them out of the country a lot, and others who keep horses, with all the time, money and energy resources these take. Is there time for a partner to be central in your life, or would they be add-ons to your work and animals?
Let’s face it; new relationships take some adjustment before you settle into a comfortable routine. If your life circumstances are rigid and restricted, you may have a difficult time shifting them to make room for the addition of a new relationship.
Begin the process NOW so your perfect partner will ease into your life without a hitch. I have seen many couples whose lives and relationships become totally derailed by their OVER attachment to animals. What seems acceptable to another animal lover becomes a serious issue when the couple want to start a family and disproportionate amounts of time, energy and money are spent on one persons attachment.
There are 3 main areas you should give some attention to:
Time. Do you have time for a committed relationship? Do you work a lot, or have other demands on your time?
One thing that many of us do when we get involved in a new relationship is drop everything else. It’s understandable because when we’re in love we feel so happy that we don’t want that feeling to end. So we might neglect our friends and family members, or even our work or other obligations for awhile, which isn’t healthy.
Try to avoid this by instead making room in your schedule for your perfect partner. When he or she arrives, how much time will you spend together? How much time do your other obligations require?
You don’t have to get too detailed with this, but do your best to make room in your schedule for the new relationship you’re attracting. When you do, you create a space for it to arrive in your life!
Physical surroundings. The same thing goes for your physical surroundings. Is the passenger seat of your car loaded with so much stuff that no one else can sit there? Is your home crammed to the ceilings with your own belongings with little room for someone else’s belongings?
Go through the same process of making room for your perfect partner in your physical surroundings as you did with your schedule, and you’ll create a space for him or her to become part of your life.
Emotional. Finally, are you emotionally ready to welcome your perfect partner into your life? You may think you are, but I want you to have a clear picture of what it will be like to share your life with another person.
Are you ready to connect intimately and communicate deeply with another? Are you ready to open your heart and trust another person?These are serious questions that require an unreserved “Yes”
If not, you will find a way to sabotage any new relationship that enters your life. To avoid this, be sure to prepare and strengthen yourself emotionally beforehand. One good way to do this is by visualizing yourself feeling confident and strong from within as you open your heart and share your life with another person. This will make a huge difference.
These three areas are key, but the point is to create a space in all areas of your life so when your perfect partner comes along he or she will fit right in!
My next post will cover another important part of the puzzle, living from your perfect partnership. Be sure not to miss that one because it’s something that can make all the difference in attracting the relationship you want!
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