By Grace Chatting
My recent posts on how the Law of Attraction affects relationships has covered a lot of information, but I hope it has helped you see much more clearly how to attract that special someone into your life.
Now I want to explore the concept of living FROM the reality you want to attract. In this case living from the reality of already having your perfect partner in your life.
One powerful way to work with the Law of Attraction is consciously being the person who has what you want. We’ve already discussed doing this on a physical level by being the person your perfect partner would want to be with, and engaging in the activities that your perfect partner would also be likely to engage in.
I am referring more to your mental and emotional state as you go about your daily activities. Are you thinking, feeling and acting like a person who already has their perfect partnership?
Or are you constantly focusing on how lonely and isolated you feel? Do you gaze jealously at other couples, wondering impatiently where your partner is? Do you feel sorry for yourself when you hear love songs on the radio or watch a romantic movie?
All of these things are sure to keep you living from the perspective of NOT having the relationship you desire! If you turn this around, you are much more likely to attract what you want.
- Create a network of friends and a full life for yourself .
- Be sociable and hospitable. Start a book club or cinema circle.
- Invite people to your home regularly. Not to moan or chit chat, but to engage in growth enhancing conversations.
- Beginning immediately, give your best effort to thinking, feeling and acting like a person who is involved in a loving, committed relationship. How would you look, walk and behave? Try it.
- Conjure up the feeling of being loved, cherished, happy, and secure. If you can’t, see a therapist.
- Be happy for other couples when you see them because you know the joy of feeling connected and intimate with a significant other.
- When you watch romantic movies or hear love songs on the radio, let your heart lift with joy and gratitude for the way they inspire you.
- Affirm as often as possible that your perfect partner is already here and will enter your life at the perfect time. Feel grateful and happy about it because you KNOW it’s true!
Creating The Conditions
What You Can Do
That’s as far as your thoughts and emotions are concerned, but living from your perfect partnership also involves taking the actions that you would take if you were already involved.
Would you eat in nice restaurants? Would you take long, leisurely walks
on the beach? Would you go out dancing or cycling?
Whatever activities you picture yourself doing with a lover, begin doing them yourself! If it makes you too uncomfortable to do them alone, ask a friend or family member to join you.
The more time you spend living FROM the perspective of your new reality, the more quickly and easily your current reality will shift to include the things you really want.
Attracting your perfect partner is no different than attracting anything else you want. Simply get clear about what you want, make room for it, and focus your thoughts, feelings, beliefs and activities in such a way that pulls it right into your life.
If you are interested in attending a workshop or residential week or weekend course on Relationships, in the UK or in Spain please contact me.
Be Happy
Grace
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